What is love? One may define love as "Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment." then makes me think What is Lust? Lust is an inordinate craving for sexual intercourse often to the point of assuming a self-indulgent, and sometimes violent character.
Now in society many people confuse the word Love with Lust. With all honesty can you really be in Love with someone you never met? Is that even possible? Can you fall for someone you never had even a conversation with is that Love or is it Lust? I understand if you may like someone,but Love is a strong word that is used loosely does it even have a meaning anymore?*everyone think about those question*
Now to me Love is when you really have strong feelings for an individual.Love makes you blind at times when there is no fault in the individuals behavior. He or she may be caught cheating but you are so blind you say it was there friend.*i am never that blind now lol*. Love makes you do alot of crazy things you would never imagine doing in your life.Love makes you think everything is perfect and you will accept an individual flaws and all.Love sometimes hurt because you give your all but at times you dont get it back.When your in love with someone you think they are your everything but dont make them your everything if they dont even show interest.I notice every song made now is about Love like that is the only topic in life.I love alicia keys song "the thing about love" *
Love
Love will come find you
Just to remind you
Of who you are
Oh love
It will forsake you
Threaten to break you
Take what you got
Everybody laughs
Everybody cries
Sure it could hurt you baby
But give it a little try
See that's the thing about love* this song is the thruth.
Now I will move on to Lust. This is about sexual desire. Many may say Omg I love him but how can you love someone you dont know. They meant to say I Lust him. Then other have sex with a guy or girl they say I Love HIm. Like are you really in love? or you lust the pussy are dick? I am being real in this blog cause Love and lust is very big in peoples life are two different things. One deals with actuaally emotions and attachment and other one is based mostly on sexual desires.
With all this being said you tell me or you in Love or in Lust?
Well, I think the difference is when you "love" someone you feel so strongly it hurts. I notice before I met the "object of my affection" we'll call him ;) ... I used to be like oh my god I wanna fuck him, lol. Then when I met him the lust completely went away & it was all love. He went from being a fantasy to a real live person.
ReplyDeleteLike I was saying before I don't put any emphasis on sex at all. So how I ended up loving such a freak, I do not know. o_O I'd rather get affection any day, that's all I need. & whenever I get even any form of that, I'm good for awhile.
What gets me though, is some people would rather be lusted after than loved. :( It hurts when you know they deserve love, your love in particular, but they feel they don't.
Hmmm, that comment didn't really resolve anything haha. But I definitely get where you're coming from, as usual. :)