Changes can be good or bad.I notice as I get older I get more bolder and wiser. There is nothing wrong with Change;sometimes in your life. I would say I look at certain things differently. I have many people that have come and go within my life. Many changes in life often strenghten me. I learn that nothing is permanent in my life just as fast I gain a new friend i also loose one etc. To me it doesn't really matter because there are a few people in my life that means the world to me*you know who you guys are*. I am not the most innocent person in life but I do have Good intent. I personally feel I change for the better. I am not the same chick that anyone can walk over and we still have the same relationship. Also I notice I am not the average girl.When saying that i don't mean i am better than anyone .I am saying that because I am a very strong head individual although at times i do act weak. The reason is because i am a very emotional person. Sometimes i wish my heart was built with iron and steel but it is not. Also i learn if you have good friends hold on to them because Men often come and go ,but a good friend will be there forever. there are times in your life when you know you must change for the better.Like right now i at a point of my life where I am content just a few more classes left then finish with school. I have a lovely family and friends that help me in my crazy times. A guy friend who is a sweetheart but need to change alot maybe when he is about 60 idk lol. With all of this said I thank my mother because she have taught me alot. I am aware of all the games in life ,but at times i still want to test them out ;even though I know the possible outcomes. Now at this crucial time in my life I learn to start doing things that makes me happy. I also change and the only person I try and impress at the end of the day is Me Myself and I. I can't really do things to make people like or love me that is something you do by yourself.One thing I would never change is my friendliness and social skills that is my best qualities. Throughout all these changes I had in life i am still Natasha Annmarie Rubie the chick people Love,adore and Respect.
signing out
Macintash
"I also change and the only person I try and impress at the end of the day is Me Myself and I." < amen! i just now learned that, & i feel so much better as a result. i'm glad you see it too.
ReplyDelete& you're right that friends, TRUE friends, will be there forever even while other acquaintances or men come & go. i always got your back cuzzo.
great blog, very insightful. love ya :)
But how do you kno what changes are good changes and which ones are bad?? honestly I have an hard time cutting loose from friends and ppl who i kno that r not good for me...cuz i knew dem so long...its hard!
ReplyDeleteand i love dis statement
"if you have good friends hold on to them because Men often come and go ,but a good friend will be there forever."
Yitidee! I am glad your eyes is open, and that you keep learning and growing every day. Changes is necessary in life to progress, and sometimes out end up leaving your friends behind(just don't leave me) lol, but i agree with you 100%. Please yourself, and other people will learn to follow....
ReplyDeleteYou know what's bad or good for you by using your BRAIN. Learning to separate what's "NEEDED" in your life, and what is "NOT NEEDED" just like anything else in life i.e. medicine, food, etc...it is not a hard task, but it is just your emotional state of mind that fucks with you. It is not easy cutting people off(don't get me wrong), but again-it is all about taking control of your own destiny. Always be in control of the leash...i tell Tasha that all the time. When you READY to let it go, or, pull it closer you can do that.@Chermaine.
ReplyDeletelol you a fool i know yoou did but sometimes i ove being whip with the lease lol i use i am control like about 40 percent of the time lol
ReplyDeleteAlso you can see they are bad when you feel a burden lifted Yitidee
ReplyDelete"Also you can see they are bad when you feel a burden lifted Yitidee" < yeah that's how i feel. well at first there is a void cause you're used to it being filled, but after you get over that you feel even better than before. it only took me like a week lol. it's a good feeling. change isn't always bad after all. :)
ReplyDeleteyea maybe its easier wen u take that action....imma try it cuz i def kno 3ppl i need to put a void stamp on n my life lol..but hmm can u void out a family member also(been wanting to do this for 2yrs honestly)..like will i b cruel for distancing myself away from fam. have any of yall ever did that??
ReplyDeletelol idk about a family memeber then again they are only blood there are times when you have friends that treat you better so i dont think sometimes blood should matter like everyone you call your sis or bro and cuz are not always blood releated but you feel like they are kin yasime
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