That is a Good?I really sat down and really thought about that. I am Gemini and I will admit we have a very loving heart. I am speaking from experience.Like can I Love him and also love someone else with all honesty yes I can.The other day when someone did hit me up my heart did drop for a second.So if that is possible with me why cant it be possible with anyone else? I understand each individual is different. I love my wife dearly and i love my Girlfriend. Some opinions of one weigh more than the other thats why it may hurt sometimes. Like when you Love someone you cant really help it. Love isnt someting that is taught.Lets say you can Love different charateristics about a person that draw you to love them. Like my wife may say she dont Love no one but i beg to differ. If she didnt Love that individual she would not be willing to compromise trust and believe. I give her props though because she is made with iron and steel lol she is not as emotional as me. In the end you live and you learn. I feel if you are talking are messing with someone like that you just need to give them like half your heart are maybe 1/4 or maybe 1/8. You should never Give your all when you are not recieving there all.Another Good question But what if the person think they are giving there all and the best they can do because people stick around through the stuff they do? ALways rememberto Love and live life many people are dying from foolishness and sickness so if it isnt a life or death situation you will be aight.
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Love is something that i can't really relate to. As i said before, i never grew up with this loving(or should i say verbally)expressing love...so it is a little harder for me. However, i know that with love there's some things that should and should not be done PERIOD. Love can be universal; when i say this i mean: loving your kids, your friends, family, etc. Nonetheless, being IN LOVE with someone is totally different from that. You cannot be in love in love with 1000 people...that just don't happen. That is just not real, in my opinion anyways. I understand you say your heart dipped when someone sent you a messgae, but heart dipping is not the same as being in love with the guy that you are in love with. I question his sincerity, because although he tells this story of "many women he loves", i just can't understand or accept that fact. Maybe he loves them, as in universal love(friends,family,etc) idk???HONESTLY a question mark comes into my head when he uses that word. To me it is sorta a joke,like a masquerade kinda....I don't see how his actions really show "GENUINE LOVE" agree or disagree with me? Funny thing, the other i was listening to the Lauryn Hill interlude talking about love(you should listen to it) on her miseducation album. They spoke about loving someone,and one of the things they said was "LOVE IS NOT PHONY". And, that's what came to my head with him...and a lot of other people too. You say you beg to differ that i love someone, but i don't love JJ...there's so many reasons why i'm not in love with him. 1 major reason: HE IS NOT ALL MINES! PERIOD. Love for me,or i should say being in love(for me) works between me and another man that's it. For others, it may be different. Now, back to you... i feel like you a taking baby steps,but i don't know how much you can/will move on. Things like this takes time, might be years...who knows. You have a mark implanted on you, so i don't think you can ever really move on to be honest. And, to me it is easy to win you back...he might say something, do something, and everything kind of goes out the window. Trust me misery loves company....and that's where i end this comment.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to love you will love because love is not something you pick or chooose like i am falling for him let me stop no it does not work like that if you have feelings for one it escalates if it is something real. So to you he may love me as a friend you are saying? if that much cool.I really dont want to listen to Lauryn Hill interlude.OK just because someone is not all yours does not mean you can not fall for them. Trust me I am not taking baby steps if i really wanted to fully move on i can trust me because i am taking more than baby steps.I love my mark it dont really matter to me it is wateva.I think it is just humanfor anyone like he didnt dash me away i am the one dashing him away so ofcourse if he may say something about me or pertaining to me i may smile it shows some form of interest or maybe i am just looking too deep i guess.
ReplyDeleteok i jus read and ive never knew love was so complicated...it will never b easy to move on...never especially when you have came so far and have all these emotions built up. I feel what you are saying when you post that you shouldnt give someone your all when they are not giving it back. I totally agree with that part! But thats when you have to come in and decide are you going to take this and leave it where it is at because you feel ur at an lost...or are you going to keep trying to make it ALL yours. But then with that question...what if he dont want to give it all to one person? love is complicated and i feel before any of that happen you have to have true dedicated communication! Jus let him know how you feel...!
ReplyDeleteBut with that person...could, in his mind he feel that he is giving his all, like do in his mind feel that exclusive relationships r his objective?? like he might think that is ok..obs none of his others have took it to that level because he see nothing wrong with it. i mean everyone love different...so you have to decide will you compromise and love him and his ways or are you going to distance. Its all up to you, whichever way it go you know you can call me anytime =)
Anoymous *lol* i feel exactly what you say when you say "Love can be universal; when i say this i mean: loving your kids, your friends, family, etc. Nonetheless, being IN LOVE with someone is totally different from that. You cannot be in love in love with 1000 people...that just don't happen."
Exactly loving someone and being in love is two completely different things...but dont you have to love someone before you can be in love with them??? You can never force being in love on anyone. Ill rather him have him put it all upfront on how it is...rather than him hiding his relationships and lying to you..that will hurt you WAYYYY more.
But once again through all that im sayin that everyone love different! You can not fault any1 for them not knowing how to love properly to you Thats when you have to explain to him how you view it and listen how he view it
ReplyDeleteNo one can explain what true love is because everyone love differently, so each have it own definition and way of proving it